# Al Ishaq: We seek to develop proactive solutions to any negative local or international problems before they turn into a phenomenon.
# Society protects itself through dialogue, and if we close the door of dialogue with our children, there are doors that we do not accept that will open for them.
 
The Protection and Social Rehabilitation Center "Aman", one of the centers of Qatar Social Work, organized a virtual cultural and dialogue salon entitled: “Parental Bullying Against Children" yesterday through the live broadcast of Teams program, Where Mr. Salah Al-Yafei - the educational trainer, presented the discussion seminar, with the participation of Mr. Abdulaziz Al Ishaq, Acting Executive Director of the Center for Protection and Social Rehabilitation (Aman), and a number of the center's employees in accordance with the precautionary measures to prevent the Corona virus. In addition to the participation of parents and those interested in the topic from various segments of society through their use of the registration link announced on social media platforms and the website of the Aman Center.

During the discussion session, Mr. Salah Al Yafei presented a comprehensive presentation of the cases of bullying that occur within the same family, explaining the concept of power and control in education and how excessive use of one of them and its use in an uncalculated manner may create bullying within the same house, which may have its impact on the child for many years and may live With him forever, and the discussion session dealt with several axes related to issues of parental bullying against children, such as defining the concept of bullying, the forms of manifestations of family bullying, the causes leading to it, how bullying is within the family, and the most important methods used to solve the problem of bullying.

Mr. Al-Yafei Confirmed the important points during the discussion session, including that insisting on subjugating children by force generates rebellion and stubbornness. Solving family problems from the roots is the best way to preserve the safety and stability of children.
He emphasized that if the external pressures moved with the parents to the house, it negatively affect the growth and stability of the children, and they always direct them to the tense and turbulent pattern of behaviour. As parents must be good listeners to be successful educators, and dialogue is the main guarantee against family disintegration.

Al-Yafei explained the signs of discovering a child's exposure to bullying, such as a sudden drop in academic performance and a lot of silence, and he explained that children learn their behaviour from observing the behaviour of their parents. If there is a defect in the behaviour of the children, the parents should review their behaviour first,
He Confirms on the importance of parents following the correct methods in raising and nurturing the behaviour of their children, as most children exposed to any types of violence may be from people who are supposed to provide them with protection and care. He also confirmed the need to contain children and create a strong relationship between them, as the gaps between parents and children may be one of the causes of indirect violence, and may cause major damage, especially on the child's behaviour and personality. The family plays a key role in creating a conscious generation that is balanced in its behaviour. Focusing on the process of good communication between parents and children, because it greatly helps to resist bullying of all kinds.

Family violence is defined as direct and indirect activities and actions that target a family member or are directed towards him with the intent of physical or psychological harm, or to cause verbal or sexual harm. Often these activities or actions are directed at one of the two weakest poles within the family: the woman and the child. The use of force within the family is a form of violence, especially when force is used by an adult family member against a woman or a child. Family violence is also defined as the infliction of psychological or physical harm that is accompanied by material harm or moral impact that violates the law and requires punishment.
As for our true religion, the principle is the prohibition of harming a child, just as if the intention to hit the without intending to discipline it is forbidden.
As for the World Health Organization, it says that violence in all its forms occurs against people under the age of eighteen, whether it is by the parents or other caregivers, in addition, estimates in 2018, for example, indicate that one billion children between the ages of 2-17 years have been exposed to physical, sexual, or emotional violence or have suffered from neglect. Exposure to violence in childhood also impacts lifelong health and wellness.
The centre is keen to increase knowledge of issues that is specific to its target groups of women and children, victims of violence and family breakdown, and those exposed to it, with the aim of raising awareness of the level of community protection and prevention, and to achieve the centre's vision, mission, and strategic objectives in spreading awareness and education to enhance protection and rehabilitation to reduce violence and family breakdown.

Abdulaziz Al Ishaq: “We care about protecting children
 In this context, Mr. Abdulaziz Al Ishaq - Acting Executive Director of Aman Centre said, “Because we care about the protection of our target groups of women and children, victims of violence and family breakdown, and those exposed to it, we focus on all issues related to their protection, and the issue of parental bullying against children focused on activating the quality of Dialogue based on safety, through the consolidation of the good relationship between parents and children, and mutual give and take between them. Children learn their behaviour from observing the behaviour of parents.
He added that the world changes and its issues change, and societies solve their problems through dialogue. If we do not discuss our problems, especially those that our children suffer from, we open the door for them to discuss their issues with people who are different from us, perhaps in terms of religion, language, and culture, and then the negative return on trying to ignore the problems will be dangerous for our children, he added. Any societal dialogue aims at reform and construction, and we strive to help families identify the issues that their children suffer from.
He confirmed that the keenness of Aman Centre to provide the necessary protection for its target groups, by providing all awareness services that were published through the centre's accounts on social media platforms, in addition to the continuity of providing protection and rehabilitation services through providing social, psychological, and legal consultations or through rehabilitation sessions.
It is worth noting that the Protection and Social Rehabilitation Centre (Aman) continues to implement the activities of the cultural salon throughout this year, to develop the capacities of the targeted groups of women and children, victims of violence and family breakdown, and those exposed to it, and to provide them with new skills that enable them to overcome any violence they may be exposed to through their awareness. By following the mechanisms of social protection and instilling some educational values that affect the behaviour of the individual and society.​